Damned if you do....

I am so sick of fighting over wedding stuff. It doesn't seem to matter what I do, it's wrong. Of course isn't that the way it's supposed to go? Aren't we always supposed to be wrong about wedding stuff. If I don't have an opinion then I'm not helping at all, so she's pissed at me. If I have an opinion and it's not what she wants, I'm wrong, and she's pissed at me. If I have the same opinion as her, then I'm just agreeing so I don't have to participate. See above.

I thought we had decided on Orange and Yellow for colors. That's what I got from our conversations. We are at the store, and get orange and yellow forks and spoons, so I start looking at table cloths. Orange and Yellow of course. All of a sudden it's wrong. The orange and yellow don't match my tux, so we must not be doing it right. I thought that wedding where about the bride and groom, not about what everybody else thought. I like Orange and Yellow, and so does she. So where is the problem?

I wish the day would come already, sooo sick of fight over it. Doesn't seem to matter what we do, we are never done. Seems like every choice we make needs to be changed. Can never leave anything the way we decide the first time.